Camp Courage
by linfar, Mon Apr 20, 2009 at 09:27:57 AM EDT
The clapping started slow, grew faster, stomping feet joined in and then the cheering became infectious. When the echo died away, I knew I had become part of a new gay movement for social change.
Packed into a weekend and aptly named Camp Courage after its namesake organization, the COURAGE CAMPAIGN, I was one of approximately 150 civil rights advocates who gathered Saturday morning at 9 a.m. at the Handlery Hotel in San Diego. Black and white, gay and straight, participants ranged in age from their 60's into their teens. Upon arrival we were randomly assigned into groups of six, and this group became our home base for the weekend.
Here we told each other our stories, and like others in their own groups I quickly bonded with my own special gang that included Buddy, a gay man whose partner was in anther group; Nii, our gay black facilitator; Paul, a straight white guy who just didn't think we were getting a fair deal; Anita, a mother of a gay boy, motivated by love for her son to embrace a whole movement; Shelby and me, two white older lesbians; and our other facilitator, Scotti, a young white guy from Fresno and proud of it.
Together, we comprised a powerful mixture of black and white, gay and straight and this zinged right inside the hard places where I had harbored hurt from the passageof prop. 8. The black lesbian and gay facilitators and leaders as well as the black particpants swiftly erased the blame after Prop. 8's passage that I had been harboring against all black Obama supporters [I had been for Hillary after all] And happily, within hours I could see that this view had been wrong and stupid. I gave it up gladly.
On Saturday we listened to Cleve Jones, union organizer, advisor on the film MILK and rabble rouser extraordinaire. Within our groups we wrote down our own life story, then we listened to each other, talked to each other, and all the while we cried and laughed and felt more empowered with each passing hour. Both days ended in breakout sessions on canvassing, using the internet, house parties, phone banking, volunteer recruitment, leadership 101, and retention.
The training is powerful, and the organizers were clear from the start: an army of gays and their friends will win gay rights once and for all. Isn't it time? YESSS!! We all roared back.
Camp Courage is part of the Courage Campaign led by Rick Jacobs. It was founded by and is led by gay veterans of the Camp Obama campaign who were lacerated by the defeats for gay rights in California in November. Co-founders Torrie Osborn and Mike Bonin who are amply aided by Lead Facilitator and Trainer Lisa Powell are ushering in a new movement which is bringing much needed Change to the LGBT movement. Gone is the top down structure of a handful of leaders dictating to the foot soldiers--a sadly bankrupt model which had dominated the movement for decades.
In its place is an organization dedicated to empowering the grass roots, to training organizers and to marshaling support for a gay movement.
This movement as you read this is becoming networked, allied and well integrated into the progressive movement, maybe even leading it. From labor unions to church organizations, from kids to grandparents, Camp Courage is providing gays, gay organizations and their straight allies with all the tools and help required to win full civil rights for gays in every sphere of life where prejudice and bigotry have prevailed. We are on the march now and nothing less will be acceptable other than Full marital rights, Full military rights and Full immigration rights.
I'm wearing a little white ribbon for marriage equality as I write this. And arrayed in my heart are the faces and voices of all I met this weekend. I fell a little bit in love with All the Camp Courage participants. We listened to each other and we loved each other. And we are on the march.
http://www.couragecampaign.org/








