I've been taking my children to political rallies, receptions, and house parties since they were babies. Many Iowa Democrats have claimed not to recognize me without a small child riding on my front, hip or back.

At the same time, I've avoided exposing my kids to political scenes likely to turn confrontational, such as anti-war demonstrations. An article I read years ago in Mothering magazine persuasively argued that because young children cannot understand abstract political concepts, they are likely to be disturbed by the anger they encounter at a protest rally. (Sorry, no link--they don't put most of their content online.)

I've also been influenced by my mother-in-law. In her 30 years as a preschool teacher, she learned that young children are easily confused by upsetting images. After 9/11, some of the kids in her class did not understand that television networks kept showing replays of the same scenes. They thought that another plane was crashing into another building every time they saw tragic footage from that day.

Living in the Des Moines suburbs, it's usually no challenge to keep my little ones from volatile political scenes. They get that not everyone votes the same way, but politics to them means coming with Mommy or Daddy to hear a candidate speak, help deliver yard signs or vote on election day.

When Fred Phelps and his clan from the Westboro Baptist Church planned a trip to central Iowa this month, it occurred to me that sheltering my children from their hatred might not be an option.

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I'm turning 40 today, and to mark the occasion I have compiled a list of 40 bloggers I like to read who have hit the same milestone. They are alphabetized by name or handle after the jump.

You'll recognize many of the names, but probably not all of them. My goal was not to compile a list of 40 high-traffic bloggers.

I have a special appreciation for state bloggers because of all the time I spend writing at Bleeding Heartland. My birthday wish is that this diary will encourage you to get active on the progressive blogs in your city or state.

I apologize in advance to all the talented "older and wiser" bloggers I didn't have room to mention.

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One year ago today I was battling an ear infection that turned bad enough to put me in the hospital for a week.

What I went through then was among the worst experiences of my life. Yet looking back on the experience, I realize how lucky I was.

I was diagnosed early enough to avoid life-threatening complications.

Before I was sick enough to require hospitalization, I had multiple x-rays, a doppler scan and an MRI. Shortly after I was admitted, I had more x-rays and a CT-scan. If I had delayed seeking medical care for another day or two, my systemic strep infection might have spread to joints or internal organs, which would have required many weeks of intravenous antibiotics. The infection might even have become life-threatening.

More and more Americans hold off on seeing a doctor in order to save money. The problem isn't limited to the uninsured either. Even laboratory testing companies are feeling a pinch because of this trend.

My doctor referred me to the top infectious disease specialist in my area.

Since my hospitalization, I've told my story to many doctors. Quite a few have remarked that they are glad I was under the care of that particular infectious disease doctor. Never having had a serious infection before, I could not have known whom to request. Without the medical insurance that pays for my routine annual physicals, I would not have had a relationship with the doctor who looked out for me and got me on the caseload of the best specialist.

The bacteria that made me sick responded to antibiotics.

The ID doc put me on three "heavy-hitter" IV antibiotics at first, but two days later when my ear culture came back as strep A, she switched me to "good old-fashioned penicillin," which did the trick. I also didn't pick up any secondary infections in the hospital. It helped that I only had one IV port. Again, if I had delayed seeking medical care until the situation was more critical, I might have ended up in the intensive care unit with more tubes going into my body and more opportunities for infection.

Drug-resistant bacteria are a growing problem on hospital wards, thanks to the overuse of antibiotics in humans and livestock. I know someone who acquired a drug-resistant staph infection after giving birth, and it almost killed her.

Veering off-topic for a moment, one of my pet peeves is when people claim not to believe in evolution. I always want to ask them, "Do you believe bacteria can sometimes become resistant to antibiotics? Because if you do, you believe in natural selection."

Getting back to my good fortune a year ago, my period of intense pain was limited.

I'll never forget how painful cellulitis was, but by the time I was discharged from the hospital, extra-strength ibuprofen was sufficient to manage the pain. Within six weeks the pain in my leg was gone, and I was able to go back to my usual exercise routine. Some people live with chronic, severe pain indefinitely, lacking insurance coverage or the means to pay out of pocket for pain-killers. If they are very lucky, a friend might help them pay for the prescription they need.

I suffered no lasting damage to my health.

The ear, nose and throat doc had warned me that I could have permanent hearing loss in the affected ear, but the ruptured eardrum healed up just fine. He also told me that on the rare occasions when he or his colleagues had seen an ear infection go really bad, it usually caused meningitis or facial paralysis. I'll take cellulitis of the leg any day.

My illness didn't leave me in financial ruin.

When I first blogged about my illness last year, some commenters warned me that I should be prepared for gargantuan bills or a huge battle with my insurer. As it turned out, my insurer covered almost all of the expenses. I never did figure out exactly how much the illness cost, because bills and statements were still arriving months later (almost never itemized). We were so relieved the day we got the biggest bill, for $18,000, and our portion was only $600. I recognize that paying $600 would be a hardship for many families, but we were fortunate to be able to settle that bill that without cutting back on any essentials.

Medical problems are a leading cause of bankruptcies in the U.S. and create incalculable stress and hardship even for families who do not go bankrupt. Last year the uncovered expenses from AdmiralNaismith's wife's embolism totaled more than he earns in three months.

Although I have long supported health care reform, my experience last year gave me a new sense of urgency about this issue. I benefited from "the best health care in the world," but so many of my neighbors would have fared worse had they suffered the same kind of infection.

My greatest wish for President Barack Obama and his Secretary of Health and Human Services, whoever that turns out to be, is that they will not "pre-compromise" and start negotiations with a health care package they think Congress will accept.

It may be too much to hope that Obama would get behind the best fix for our broken system, but he should aim very high.

Republicans' pride in their near-unanimous opposition to the stimulus bill should dissuade the president from moving even a millimeter in their direction when the debate begins on health care. They want to build a comeback on Obama's failure and will do nothing to help him succeed.

As for the Congressional Democrats who stand in the way of the change we need, I hope Obama will use the bully pulpit to shame them into action. Recent opinion polls on health care have shown huge dissatisfaction with the status quo and growing support for government-run, guaranteed health care. Lyndon Johnson pushed members of Congress further than they were initially willing to go on some issues, notably civil rights. Obama's approval ratings are high, and what better way to spend his political capital than to deliver on universal health care?

This thread is for any insight about the substance of health care reform or the best political strategy for doing it right.

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adapted with minor changes from a diary I wrote last February

One day in February 2007, Steve Gilliard wrote his last post for the News Blog and went to the doctor to get a prescription for a cold he couldn't shake. He was admitted to the hospital right away for treatment of an infection of unknown origin, and he never was able to get back on his computer. He died that June.

I know I'm not the only former News Blog addict who thinks of Steve every time Republican Party chairman Michael Steele says something ridiculous. Steve would have had a field day with the RNC leadership contest. Just imagine the post he might have written about this list of prominent conservatives who endorsed Ken Blackwell.

Further reflections on what Steve's blogging meant to me are after the jump.

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I was at work yesterday, working.  This has been a very big week on many fronts but the elation of a shiny new President Obama was going to end quickly.  I just gave notice that I would finally be cutting back my hours (And it scares the hell out of me, because I just kissed 25% of my income away) due to chronic illness.  It was time.

And my Mother has been dealing with issues related to my Grandmother's health.  My Grandmother can no longer care for herself and it was a very tough time for my Mom, to know her Mother can never go back home again.

And then what?  I get a phone call from my Mother that she'd just been laid off.  She had been working at the same company for over ten years, underpaid and overworked and taken for granted.  And to top things off, they escorted her from the building, letting her know she could clear up her desk after working hours.

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