Goodbye to All That #2

One upon a time I was a Robin Morgan fan.  Her voice guided me as a budding feminist of the 70's.  One of the things she was famous for was her 1970 essay, "Goodbye To All That" in which she "[broke] free from a politics of accommodation especially affecting women"  http://blog.fair-use.org/category/chicag o/.

But I'd forgotten about Robin Morgan.  

This morning I just read her essay "Goodbye to All That #2."
( http://www.womensmediacenter.com/ex/0201 08.html ) Apparently it's been around since February, but I missed it.  I'm glad I found it.  It blew me away.

Why did she write #2?  Because: "During my decades in civil-rights, anti-war, and contemporary women's movements, I've avoided writing another specific 'Goodbye . . .' But not since the suffrage struggle have two communities--joint conscience-keepers of this country--been so set in competition, as the contest between Hillary Rodham Clinton (HRC) and Barack Obama (BO) unfurls."

In this essay you will hear why she says:

"Goodbye to the double standard . . .
Goodbye to the toxic viciousness  . . .
Goodbye to the news-coverage target-practice . . .
Goodbye to a misrepresented generational divide . . .
And goodbye to the ageism . . ."

I was very moved near the end of her essay by these quotes from Hillary herself:

"For too long, the history of women has been a history of silence. Even today, there are those who are trying to silence our words."

and

"It is a violation of human rights when babies are denied food, or drowned, or suffocated, or their spines broken, simply because they are born girls. It is a violation of human rights when woman and girls are sold into the slavery of prostitution. It is a violation of human rights when women are doused with gasoline, set on fire and burned to death because their marriage dowries are deemed too small. It is a violation of human rights when individual women are raped in their own communities and when thousands of women are subjected to rape as a tactic or prize of war. It is a violation of human rights when a leading cause of death worldwide along women ages 14 to 44 is the violence they are subjected to in their own homes. It is a violation of human rights when women are denied the right to plan their own families, and that includes being forced to have abortions or being sterilized against their will."

and

"Women's rights are human rights. Among those rights are the right to speak freely--and the right to be heard."

That was Hillary Rodham Clinton defying the U.S. State Department and the Chinese Government at the 1995 UN World Conference on Women in Beijing (http://www.americanrhetoric.com/speeches /hillaryclintonbeijingspeech.htm).

And this voice, age 21, in "Commencement Remarks of Hillary D. Rodham, President of Wellesley College Government Association, Class of 1969."  http://www.wellesley.edu/PublicAffairs/C ommencement/1969/053169hillary.html

"We are, all of us, exploring a world none of us understands. . . . searching for a more immediate, ecstatic, and penetrating mode of living. . . . [for the] integrity, the courage to be whole, living in relation to one another in the full poetry of existence. The struggle for an integrated life existing in an atmosphere of communal trust and respect is one with desperately important political and social consequences. . . . Fear is always with us, but we just don't have time for it."

Robin Morgan, lifelong feminist and advocate for women, is supporting Hillary.  Here's why:

"Me? I support Hillary Rodham because she's the best qualified of all candidates running in both parties. I support her because her progressive politics are as strong as her proven ability to withstand what will be a massive right-wing assault in the general election. I support her because she knows how to get us out of Iraq. I support her because she's refreshingly thoughtful, and I'm bloodied from eight years of a jolly "uniter" with ejaculatory politics. I needn't agree with her on every point. I agree with the 97 percent of her positions that are identical with Obama's--and the few where hers are both more practical and to the left of his (like health care). I support her because she's already smashed the first-lady stereotype and made history as a fine senator, because I believe she will continue to make history not only as the first US woman president, but as a great US president.

As for the 'woman thing'?

Me, I'm voting for Hillary not because she's a woman--but because I am."

Until I read Ms. Morgan's essay, I had been distressed about the way this primary has gone, but inarticulate about it.  Truth is, I haven't been an active feminist in years.  This essay helped bring my distress into sharp focus.  Thank you, Robin Morgan, and thank you Hillary, for bringing me home.



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Re: Goodbye to All That #2 (none / 0)

And her daughter is supporting Obama.


by venician on Thu May 22, 2008 at 02:49:34 PM EST

Well, that will make everything all better. (2.00 / 1)


It's an election, not an auction.
by cosbo on Thu May 22, 2008 at 02:51:49 PM EST
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Re: Goodbye to All That #2 (2.00 / 3)

can't resist, can you?  A nice pro-Clinton diary and you go and crud it up with a neener-neener comment


by colebiancardi on Thu May 22, 2008 at 02:52:34 PM EST
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Re: Goodbye to All That #2 (1.33 / 3)

No, it was a simple comment on how different generations of women view sexism. I thought I'd keep it simple for the low information voters.


by venician on Thu May 22, 2008 at 02:57:56 PM EST
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Re: Goodbye to All That #2 (2.00 / 1)

TR'd because you cannot resist in insulting others.


by colebiancardi on Thu May 22, 2008 at 03:00:59 PM EST
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Re: Goodbye to All That #2 (none / 0)

Just can't resist that TR button can you. And you can now apologize for my initial comment which has merit in this discussion, as you can see from the comments.


by venician on Thu May 22, 2008 at 03:44:57 PM EST
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Re: Goodbye to All That #2 (none / 0)

what apology?  You made a smart azz comment to shit over this diary.  I didn't rate you on that comment;  however, you kept on giving the gift with your next comment - that I TR'd on.


by colebiancardi on Thu May 22, 2008 at 04:22:17 PM EST
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She has way more sense than that (none / 0)

Not only does Chelsea support her mom, but she has been way more effective at helping her mother reach men and women of her age and younger than either of them probably thought possible at this time last year.


by pan230oh on Thu May 22, 2008 at 03:12:57 PM EST
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Re: Goodbye to All That #2 (none / 0)

LOL!  Kids--what can ya do?  Sort of like the Kennedy patriarchs/matriarchs comparing OBama to RFK and then Bobby, Jr supporting Hillary...


by ahw on Thu May 22, 2008 at 03:34:34 PM EST
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Re: Goodbye to All That #2 (2.00 / 1)

thank you for this!!

rec'd.  


by colebiancardi on Thu May 22, 2008 at 02:51:31 PM EST

Re: Goodbye to All That #2 (2.00 / 1)

Your choice is fine with me, but please don't think those of us who support Barack Obama do so because we (1) are misogynist (2) prefer a man (3) hate Hillary Clinton (4) want to see a black become president sooner than a woman, or (5) do so for any other reason than we believe that Obama will be a more effective president.

None of these factors are true for most Obama supporters any more so than people who support Clinton are racist hillbillies.

Had Obama not been such an effective candidate, I would gladly -- and nearly did -- support Clinton.


by wolff109 on Thu May 22, 2008 at 02:53:40 PM EST

Re: Goodbye to All That #2 (2.00 / 1)

Interesting perspective, much appreciated.


by rfahey22 on Thu May 22, 2008 at 03:03:53 PM EST

Re: Goodbye to All That #2 (2.00 / 1)

Yeah, I read this in February and discussed it a lot with young feminist women and feminist women in their 40s to 60s. Most of us found it extremely offensive, but it rang true to some of the women over 55. I'm a 50 year old, white feminist woman who thought it exemplified a tradition of victim feminism that I used to argue was a stereotype propagated by anti-feminist conservatives.


We care about politics because we know politics matters for people's lives and opportunities.
by politicsmatters on Thu May 22, 2008 at 03:26:20 PM EST

Re: Goodbye to All That #2 (2.00 / 1)

Oh, and the college aged women who are in women's studies classes? Most of them are embarrassed by this sort of thing, at least the ones I've talked to (and done so without first revealing my own views).  Most of them support Obama.


We care about politics because we know politics matters for people's lives and opportunities.
by politicsmatters on Thu May 22, 2008 at 03:28:06 PM EST
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Re: Goodbye to All That #2 (2.00 / 1)

Hmmm...  To me, saying they're "embarrassed" by this is as much a reflection on them.


by ahw on Thu May 22, 2008 at 03:37:20 PM EST
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Re: Goodbye to All That #2 (none / 0)

You're right. Living in their world, the world they grew up in, this is totally over the top. And they don't like the casual insults thrown toward Obama either.


We care about politics because we know politics matters for people's lives and opportunities.
by politicsmatters on Thu May 22, 2008 at 03:39:41 PM EST
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Re: Goodbye to All That #2 (2.00 / 1)

I do not wish to disparage you or your opinion.  I will say, though, that if in "the world [in which] they grew up this is totally over the top," then they've lived in a very sheltered world, indeed.  When I look at the greater portion of the world and see the conditions that women live in; when I see that right here in our own current news we've got girls forced into marriage and parenthood and into sexual slavery; when I see the persistent and continued underrepresentation of women in government, it is not over the top at all.  The "world they live in" rests on the shoulders of lions and lionesses who gave it to them and even a superficial look at history shows it could disappear in a heartbeat...


by ahw on Thu May 22, 2008 at 03:52:31 PM EST
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I wonder if this is the real generational divide.  I work with women.  I work under women.  I have women that I am in charge of.  Some are good at what they do, others not so much.  Just like men.  I've had the opportunity to see some amazing woman leaders in my field, and some that were terrible leaders.  I've even seen that women can now be included in the "Good Old Boys Club".

Given all that, I realize the media are a bunch of boobs, but what can you do about that really?  Obama's a muslim, Hillary is a devil in a pantsuit, John McCain is a straightshooter, Mitt Romney is an actual human being and not an android.  Lies, all of these.

But the bottom line is that I don't come to any of this with an expectation that a woman wouldn't get a fair shake.  I'm surrounded by women who have gotten a fair shake and have proven themselves.


by the mollusk on Thu May 22, 2008 at 03:33:34 PM EST

You'll like this article too (2.00 / 1)

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/con tent/article/2008/05/14/AR2008051403090. html

Here's the part which resonates the most with me personally... you can read the rest through the link.

"I won't miss reading another treatise by a man or woman, of the left or right, who says that sexism has had not even a teeny-weeny bit of influence on the course of the Democratic campaign. To hint that sexism might possibly have had a minimal role is to play that risible 'gender card'."

"Most of all, I will not miss the silence. I will not miss the deafening, depressing silence of Democratic National Committee Chairman Howard Dean or other leading Democrats, who to my knowledge (with the exception of Sen. Barbara Mikulski of Maryland) haven't publicly uttered a word of outrage at the unrelenting, sex-based hate that has been hurled at a former first lady and two-term senator from New York. Among those holding their tongues are hundreds of Democrats for whom Clinton has campaigned and raised millions of dollars. Don Imus endured more public ire from the political class when he insulted the Rutgers University women's basketball team."

"Would the silence prevail if Obama's likeness were put on a tap-dancing doll that was sold at airports? Would the media figures who dole out precious face time to these politicians be such pals if they'd compared Obama with a character in a blaxploitation film? And how would crude references to Obama's sex organs play?"


"Life is too short, time is too precious, and the stakes are too high to dwell on what might have been." Hillary Rodham Clinton - June 7, 2008
by twinmom on Thu May 22, 2008 at 03:53:13 PM EST


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